Loving a Scorpio is anything but boring. They are passionate, intense and full of great mystery. A Scorpio knows how to keep things exciting and their sexuality is nothing to be taken lightly.
Scorpio’s are naturally emphatic and highly intuitive which makes them more sensitive to emotions than most. Scorpio’s are dominating and head strong, but in the end they will always follow their heart. Because of this quality in themselves, they most often listen to the hearts of others over rational thinking processes and can be left confused and hurt when someone doesn’t follow their truest desire.
So if you are dating, are married to, or are simply related to a Scorpio, here are the crucial things you need to know.
1. They are emotionally intense
No other sign in the zodiac can match the intensity of a Scorpio. Whatever they do, they do it with reverence or they won’t do it all.
2. They can be self-destructive
The sign of the alchemist, Scorpio rules over death and rebirth and therefore is natural at breaking down aspects of themselves in order to start over from scratch.
From an outsiders perspective, it may appear to be self-inflicted abuse however a Scorpio knows that it may take a melt down in order to build themselves back up again and this time, stronger than ever before.
3. They can be incredibly sensitive
As Scorpio’s are highly intuitive and naturally emphatic, they tend to absorb the energies of others and reverberate them into their being, let alone trying to cope with their own emotional dealings.
Therefore Scorpios can be highly sensitive and it is important to support a scorpio, they way they need to be. Reassuring a Scorpio “that everything will be o.k” and that there is no need to worry can do wonders for emotional stability.
4. They are introverted
The extroverted introvert, a Scorpio loves to be the center of attention when at a gravitational high, yet will become recluse once the energy is either attained or dispelled.
They are naturally gifted at “small talk”, and know how to be charming without letting outsiders see the real authentic part of them.
5.They believe in fairy tales
Scorpios are magicians by nature and they are keen at reading between the lines. Love stories like The Notebook or fairy tales like Cinderella, conjure their inner knowing that miracles are real. A Scorpio loves to search for these hidden meanings laying just below the surface and will scratch until they break the veil.
6. They are stubborn
The intensity and tenaciousness of a Scorpio can drive them into tunnel vision. Once they are set on something, its hard to make them see anything but what they are focused on.
When offended a Scorpio will plant their feet hard and dig in deep. It takes the soothing and calm demeanor of their partner to melt their ice and bring them back to a level head.
7. They are independent
A Scorpio is clear to let you know that they really don’t need you, without speaking a word. They are strong, determined and self-sufficient. The hard shell of a Scorpio allows them to manage alright when it comes to the everyday, but what they really need is someone who can match their level. No doubt a Scorpio has or will have gone through relationships where they assume the leader role and while they can do this with ease, for the long-term they are looking for someone whom they can trust enough to lead them.
It takes a lot to earn the respect and trust of a Scorpio and this is because they can see right through you, don’t ever think they can’t.
8. They tend to be over thinkers
A Scorpio always hears what is behind the words being spoken, the “what’s not being said” is their domain and because of this, they can’t help but lean towards the overthinking end of everything.
9. They take things seriously
On the downfall, Scorpios are known to take life a little too seriously and need to be reminded that the universe is playful! They are hard on themselves and are known to hold guilt for a longer than normal period of time. Let your Scorpio know that they shouldn’t sweat it “like water off a ducks back.”
10. They are highly observant
Not much gets past a Scorpio, a natural detective, they will be on to you before you know it. So if you are trying to be sneaky, you’d better be on your A game.
11. They are highly sexual
No doubt, word on the street is that a Scorpio is crazy in bed. If you aren’t looking for anything but the contemporary, choose a different sign to be your mate. Scorpios know how to take normal ordinary sex and amplify it into something more– sensual, spiritual and creative.
They understand the power of sexual creative energy and know just how to wield it. But beware if you double cross a Scorpio, they have complete control over their reproductive organs can shut it down, turn it off and lock it up, just as quick.
12. They are crazy!
Scorpio’s are highly creative and this creativity needs an outlet! If a Scorpio is pent-up with out a release, or stuck on an idea without closure you’d better watch out because its going to get out, one way or another….
by LJ Vanier, Team Spirit!